Hello again sweeties!
A lot of you have messaged me for advice and to be quite honest with you, I’m figuring it out for myself as I go! There is no set trick that “gets em every time” my sugar experiences are case by case. I’m still in search of my Daddy Warbucks but have found some Above Average Joe’s as I go :)
My best advice to you is know what you want and don’t settle for less. Work with what you’ve got. I hold myself to a pretty high standard when it comes to dating, so I am very picky when it comes to sugaring. If I find a POT who turns out to not b sweet enough and I happen to want a certain something that’s not $ (vacations, jewelry, etc), I’ll get that and move on. especially if they’re a stressful individual and let me say that most sd LOVE drama somehow.
I currently have 2 real pots in work and 1 constant
Handsome is 33 and a successful business man who seems to just like the thrill of having “his little secret” Not one to make any big profit from, but says he prefers to simply pay all my living expenses and occasional extra hundred for personal use. Fine with me.
Unknown has been a sd in the past, but doesn’t realize it, to the very young mother of his kid. She abused her luck and now he has full custody. I’m thinking hes a cautious man with how he spends his $..i Google him and geez does he have $..but once you’re in, he’s all about it.
Army boy is back soon and is giving me allowance to visit him in Oct and again to join him on an international trip the following month. He offered full cost cover for both trips (plane, hotel, food, shopping, activities, etc) and sends monthly gifts whether something I ask for or he thought I’d like.
I don’t accept nightly offers or tolerate disrespect. This comes before the rest. If they want to act superior, they can go find a sub to beg for her allowance and get pushed around. if they think you’re under their thumb, they’ll treat you however they see fit.. however when they have to take actions, ime, you’ll never have to ask for your allowance or ask twice for shopping/gifts etc. They’ll b more concerned with actually earning your attention with their wit which they won’t get the chance unless you’ve already received your end of the bargain. They should b under the impression that you don’t need them, but they know they need you