Tips and Updates :)

Hello again sweeties!
A lot of you have messaged me for advice and to be quite honest with you, I’m figuring it out for myself as I go! There is no set trick that “gets em every time” my sugar experiences are case by case. I’m still in search of my Daddy Warbucks but have found some Above Average Joe’s as I go :)

My best advice to you is know what you want and don’t settle for less. Work with what you’ve got. I hold myself to a pretty high standard when it comes to dating, so I am very picky when it comes to sugaring. If I find a POT who turns out to not b sweet enough and I happen to want a certain something that’s not $ (vacations, jewelry, etc), I’ll get that and move on. especially if they’re a stressful individual and let me say that most sd LOVE drama somehow.

I currently have 2 real pots in work and 1 constant

Handsome is 33 and a successful business man who seems to just like the thrill of having “his little secret” Not one to make any big profit from, but says he prefers to simply pay all my living expenses and occasional extra hundred for personal use. Fine with me.
Unknown has been a sd in the past, but doesn’t realize it, to the very young mother of his kid. She abused her luck and now he has full custody. I’m thinking hes a cautious man with how he spends his $..i Google him and geez does he have $..but once you’re in, he’s all about it.

Army boy is back soon and is giving me allowance to visit him in Oct and again to join him on an international trip the following month. He offered full cost cover for both trips (plane, hotel, food, shopping, activities, etc) and sends monthly gifts whether something I ask for or he thought I’d like.

I don’t accept nightly offers or tolerate disrespect. This comes before the rest. If they want to act superior, they can go find a sub to beg for her allowance and get pushed around. if they think you’re under their thumb, they’ll treat you however they see fit.. however when they have to take actions, ime, you’ll never have to ask for your allowance or ask twice for shopping/gifts etc. They’ll b more concerned with actually earning your attention with their wit which they won’t get the chance unless you’ve already received your end of the bargain. They should b under the impression that you don’t need them, but they know they need you

Ended the arrangement with the big shot. His emotions and needyness was tolerable. But this morning he began complaining about the financial side of our relationship..essentially he forgot that this was an arrangement and felt I should at this point be with him for love..and admittedly I do care about him, but at the end of the day, this was an arrangement. No allowance/gifts/getaways, no us. Reinstated all my dating profiles and have POTs set up for next week. threw army boy a bone and he deposited this month’s allowance almost immediately. No rest for the wicked! ;)

Ended the arrangement with the big shot. His emotions and needyness was tolerable. But this morning he began complaining about the financial side of our relationship..essentially he forgot that this was an arrangement and felt I should at this point be with him for love..and admittedly I do care about him, but at the end of the day, this was an arrangement. No allowance/gifts/getaways, no us. Reinstated all my dating profiles and have POTs set up for next week. threw army boy a bone and he deposited this month’s allowance almost immediately. No rest for the wicked! ;)

Babies, always remember!

My sd is a very emotional man. Has a lot of demons in his past and can at times be someone who just has to be fighting with someone. Since i am the only person keeping him happy/close to him romantically, of course that means he picks his fights with me. I’ll give him a pass depending on his day but i make it clear i am in no way his punching bag (figuratively speaking of course).

Said if he feels the need to lie to me about his day, especially when hes seeing his soon to be ex wife, then hes slowly taking the fun out of us. I understand he is living almost a double life but the beauty of a sugar is, we know about the deception and we dont get mad over it.

During another of his emotional fits i reminded him that he and i are something to be enjoyed and if he no longer is, then we should move on. He started crying, agreed, and said he just thinks theres too much he cant give me (kids and such) and doesnt want me missing out on blah blah blah. I wished him luck in his adventures and said if he ever needs a friend, I’ll be here for him..

2hrs later he called to say he didn’t want to lose me and will work on his emotions with me..oh and that we’re going shopping and im getting an increase.

Always remember babies that we are there to make them happy and they should do everything they can to do the same.

orgasmicshewolf
orgasmicshewolf:

sinfullysweetestsugar:

Finally! A real sd! He found me online. 2 days of messaging he was offering me 5k allowance to start. 4days later, met for coffee this morning. Clicked (of course). Just let dinner and he gave me this. 1st months allowance plus double to go to cali for a day and go out with him Saturday then go shopping while hes busy. Hasnt even tried getting physcial. Older but good looking. Very accomplished. Gentleman. About time i met my guy! 

Army boy still sends 1k allowance but he seems to want to b worshipped for it..comments like “well i guess I’ll buy you that ” when i literally asked for nothing and was just telling him something neat i found. Hes just annoying. But with RealDeal around, i might cut him loose. I can focus more on things ive been trying to do :) yay winning!

What website did you use?

He found me on ashley madison. That site is full of salty, horny, old men but theres always a diamond in the rough:)

orgasmicshewolf:

sinfullysweetestsugar:

Finally! A real sd! He found me online. 2 days of messaging he was offering me 5k allowance to start. 4days later, met for coffee this morning. Clicked (of course). Just let dinner and he gave me this. 1st months allowance plus double to go to cali for a day and go out with him Saturday then go shopping while hes busy. Hasnt even tried getting physcial. Older but good looking. Very accomplished. Gentleman. About time i met my guy!

Army boy still sends 1k allowance but he seems to want to b worshipped for it..comments like “well i guess I’ll buy you that ” when i literally asked for nothing and was just telling him something neat i found. Hes just annoying. But with RealDeal around, i might cut him loose. I can focus more on things ive been trying to do :) yay winning!

What website did you use?

He found me on ashley madison. That site is full of salty, horny, old men but theres always a diamond in the rough:)

isugarbaby
isugarbaby:

beachbunnyescort:

sinfullysweetestsugar:

Finally! A real sd! He found me online. 2 days of messaging he was offering me 5k allowance to start. 4days later, met for coffee this morning. Clicked (of course). Just let dinner and he gave me this. 1st months allowance plus double to go to cali for a day and go out with him Saturday then go shopping while hes busy. Hasnt even tried getting physcial. Older but good looking. Very accomplished. Gentleman. About time i met my guy!
Army boy still sends 1k allowance but he seems to want to b worshipped for it..comments like “well i guess I’ll buy you that ” when i literally asked for nothing and was just telling him something neat i found. Hes just annoying. But with RealDeal around, i might cut him loose. I can focus more on things ive been trying to do :) yay winning!

YAY! That’s great girl, but please use some of that to go fix those nails ;)
Congrats xx

Lmao! Yes the finer things in life. Like fake nails 😐

Lucky for me ive never worn them so all i need is polish :)

isugarbaby:

beachbunnyescort:

sinfullysweetestsugar:

Finally! A real sd! He found me online. 2 days of messaging he was offering me 5k allowance to start. 4days later, met for coffee this morning. Clicked (of course). Just let dinner and he gave me this. 1st months allowance plus double to go to cali for a day and go out with him Saturday then go shopping while hes busy. Hasnt even tried getting physcial. Older but good looking. Very accomplished. Gentleman. About time i met my guy!

Army boy still sends 1k allowance but he seems to want to b worshipped for it..comments like “well i guess I’ll buy you that ” when i literally asked for nothing and was just telling him something neat i found. Hes just annoying. But with RealDeal around, i might cut him loose. I can focus more on things ive been trying to do :) yay winning!

YAY! That’s great girl, but please use some of that to go fix those nails ;)

Congrats xx

Lmao! Yes the finer things in life. Like fake nails 😐

Lucky for me ive never worn them so all i need is polish :)

Real Deal is amazing. Good looking. Sweet. Caring. Funny. Friend. Lover. Genuinely an amazing person. Hes dealing with some tragedies in his life so i dont see him very often but when i do, we always have fun. Ive been traveling for fun and its great. He is worried he cares for me more than he should before he has dealt with his personal issues so he gave me 30k to hold me over while he heals. I am going back to school with it and am so excited :) he is such a blessing in so many ways. I am one lucky girl. Oh, and this is the amount after i paid off my car loan :D

Real Deal is amazing. Good looking. Sweet. Caring. Funny. Friend. Lover. Genuinely an amazing person. Hes dealing with some tragedies in his life so i dont see him very often but when i do, we always have fun. Ive been traveling for fun and its great. He is worried he cares for me more than he should before he has dealt with his personal issues so he gave me 30k to hold me over while he heals. I am going back to school with it and am so excited :) he is such a blessing in so many ways. I am one lucky girl. Oh, and this is the amount after i paid off my car loan :D

Met with Mr Perfect this morning for an early walk with my pups. He gave me $3k for my roommate and i to go to Vegas for 4 days and have fun. He said he did his math wrong and didnt give enough so will be seeing him later tonight and he is giving me more for shopping. He is a big cuddler and loves just being close. Still behaves like a gentleman and i love it :) hope to keep this one around for a while!!Xox

Met with Mr Perfect this morning for an early walk with my pups. He gave me $3k for my roommate and i to go to Vegas for 4 days and have fun. He said he did his math wrong and didnt give enough so will be seeing him later tonight and he is giving me more for shopping. He is a big cuddler and loves just being close. Still behaves like a gentleman and i love it :) hope to keep this one around for a while!!Xox

Jack is pretty perfect. I was supposed to meet him in cali but some crazyness happened and he had to come home early. Felt bad about cancelling so took me shopping still. I made sure to make sensible but fun purchases. No coach or prada crazyness on a first trip. But i did let him get me a little T&Co. NM next weekend. Fun times ahead :D

Jack is pretty perfect. I was supposed to meet him in cali but some crazyness happened and he had to come home early. Felt bad about cancelling so took me shopping still. I made sure to make sensible but fun purchases. No coach or prada crazyness on a first trip. But i did let him get me a little T&Co. NM next weekend. Fun times ahead :D

Finally! A real sd! He found me online. 2 days of messaging he was offering me 5k allowance to start. 4days later, met for coffee this morning. Clicked (of course). Just let dinner and he gave me this. 1st months allowance plus double to go to cali for a day and go out with him Saturday then go shopping while hes busy. Hasnt even tried getting physcial. Older but good looking. Very accomplished. Gentleman. About time i met my guy! 

Army boy still sends 1k allowance but he seems to want to b worshipped for it..comments like “well i guess I’ll buy you that ” when i literally asked for nothing and was just telling him something neat i found. Hes just annoying. But with RealDeal around, i might cut him loose. I can focus more on things ive been trying to do :) yay winning!

Finally! A real sd! He found me online. 2 days of messaging he was offering me 5k allowance to start. 4days later, met for coffee this morning. Clicked (of course). Just let dinner and he gave me this. 1st months allowance plus double to go to cali for a day and go out with him Saturday then go shopping while hes busy. Hasnt even tried getting physcial. Older but good looking. Very accomplished. Gentleman. About time i met my guy!

Army boy still sends 1k allowance but he seems to want to b worshipped for it..comments like “well i guess I’ll buy you that ” when i literally asked for nothing and was just telling him something neat i found. Hes just annoying. But with RealDeal around, i might cut him loose. I can focus more on things ive been trying to do :) yay winning!